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Mo & Phindi are relationship strategists, radio contributors and co-authors of the book: Love Isn’t For Cowards
With a shift in personal goals, values and roles that differ greatly from previous generations, more and more millennials are tapping the brakes on marriage.
Marriage is for losers. We arrived at this conclusion when we nearly walked our separate ways, about three years into our marriage. Everything was really fine on the surface. We both had high paying jobs, were treating each other with…
Being constantly accused of something you know you are innocent of is frustrating.
No matter how much you play it down, spending the Christmas holidays with someone else’s family is a humongous step, especially if it's your new spouse’s family.
Few moments in a couple’s intimate life are as awkward and that inhibit sexual desire than the fear of getting caught in the act by your child.
Modern romance often means no-one is home to make dinner — or if someone’s at home, they’re suffering loneliness, abandonment and neglect from the one that’s at work.
One of the most common questions people often ask about relationships where toxicity and abuse are prevalent is, “Why didn’t she just leave him?”
Feelings-driven romantic love fizzles out with time, while true love is strengthened by time, commitment, and shared life experiences.
If someone steps on your foot, depending on how hard they stomp on it, you’ll either ignore, whisper or scream.
Sure enough, your brain craves an authentic narrative to make sense of what happened between the two of you, especially if the break-up, disappearance or the pulling away was unexpected.
It’s normal for many marriages that, in expressing sharp disagreements, couples end up deteriorating the conflict to painful verbal exchanges.
The all-or-nothing mindset — a polarised and toxic thought pattern also known as dichotomous thinking — is a common thinking error that negatively affects many marriages.
We recently came across an online blog that reads, “Compromise — no matter how difficult — is a necessary part of any successful, enduring marriage.”
A plant that is not regularly watered dries up and dies. What kills it isn’t just the lack of water, but its inability to suck nutrients from the soil so it can grow
Being married to someone that believes they are always right and therefore can't take correction or receive guidance from you is being in a controlling and manipulative relationship.
